Bureaucrat to Baby Steps

From international development to personal rebirth — navigating motherhood, loss, and identity, one step at a time.

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I am a displaced federal worker and the creator behind this blog.

For nearly two decades, I served at USAID, leading programs in global health and humanitarian response. Then life shifted — I became my father’s caregiver, lost him, and watched the career I had built be dismantled.

Now, I’m rebuilding from scratch. Bureaucrat to Baby Steps is where I share the messy, hopeful journey of loss, legacy, and motherhood — one small step at a time.

This space is less about polished advice and more about real stories of transition, caregiving, and becoming a mother on my own terms.

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I Watched Margot’s Got Money Problems—and Suddenly I Got It

I binged Margot’s Got Money Problems and, as a new mom who was also RIFed from a longtime career, found myself unexpectedly relating to the economics behind Margot’s OnlyFans decision. Motherhood has changed the way I think about childcare, flexible work—and why we’re so quick to judge the unconventional ways women make money.

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My Favorite Year Ever

2019 was the year I finally felt like I had it together—not because my life was perfect, but because I was genuinely content with it. I was happily single, surrounded by incredible friends, doing work I loved, traveling on my own, and making choices for my future without feeling like I was waiting for my…

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The Dance Party Continues

I’ve been having dance parties for as long as I can remember—from Michael Jackson and Madonna in preschool, to weekends dancing with my best friend in high school, college afternoons and late nights dancing until 5 a.m., to making Bailey Bear my reluctant partner. Now I have a new, very willing dance partner: Baby J.…

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