Category: Caregiving & Family

  • The Companion Who Became Family

    The Companion Who Became Family

    Unconventional relationships have been the thread running through my life lately, and this one might be the most unexpected of all. I met him in the early days of COVID—not at USAID, where he also worked as a foreign service officer, but in the unlikeliest of places: our neighborhood dog-walking circuit. At first, I wrote…

  • Between Parents and Parenthood: The Millennial Sandwich No One Prepared Us For

    Between Parents and Parenthood: The Millennial Sandwich No One Prepared Us For

    A reflective story about caring for aging parents as a Millennial and stepping into motherhood — a deeply personal take on what it means to be part of the sandwich generation. I became a caregiver long before I ever became a parent. In my late twenties, while most of my friends were climbing career ladders…

  • How I Got Here: Advocacy, Patience, and Love

    How I Got Here: Advocacy, Patience, and Love

    Motherhood feels like stepping into a role I’ve been preparing for my whole life — though not in the ways I expected. Caring for my parents taught me lessons I could never have learned in books, workshops, or even my years of international development work. Lessons in patience, advocacy, problem-solving, emotional resilience — all of…