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I Watched Margot’s Got Money Problems—and Suddenly I Got It
I binged Margot’s Got Money Problems and, as a new mom who was also RIFed from a longtime career, found myself unexpectedly relating to the economics behind Margot’s OnlyFans decision. Motherhood has changed the way I think about childcare, flexible work—and why we’re so quick to judge the unconventional ways women make money.
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The Baby Was Always the Goal
After becoming a mother by choice, I realized why many of my past relationships failed. My true goal was always motherhood, and that shaped how I approached dating and love.
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Part 5: Relearning Strength — The Long Road of Postpartum Recovery
Part of the series: The Fourth Trimester in Real Life — reflections on birth, recovery, community, and the quiet systems that shape early motherhood. One of the things no one really prepares you for after pregnancy is how weak your body can feel. After having a C-section, I quickly realized just how much my body…
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Part 1: Birth & the Six‑Week Postpartum Journey
Survival Mode and Invisible Labor Birth is immediate. It is visceral and consuming and unmistakably human. In my case, it was also carefully planned—and then suddenly not. I went into the hospital for a scheduled induction because of gestational diabetes, prepared for a long but controlled process. We expected a large baby, close to nine…
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Pregnancy Plans and Plot Twists
The Lived Experience of Pregnancy For most of my career, I’ve been a planner. In government and international development, you learn to thrive on spreadsheets, work plans, and five-year strategies. Everything has a process. Everything has a timeline. Everything has a fallback plan — or at least, it used to. Pregnancy laughed in the face…
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Inheritance, Not Rebellion
Category: Legacy & Love | Motherhood & Moxie When people hear I’m becoming a single mother by choice, they often assume it’s rebellion.For me, it feels more like inheritance. I come from a family of quiet revolutionaries. My parents were born into a conservative Bengali society where women were expected to follow, not lead, and…
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How I Got Here: From Bureaucrat to Baby Steps
“This wasn’t the plan — and yet somehow, it’s exactly where I’m meant to be.” If you told me five years ago that I’d be 22 weeks pregnant, unemployed, and starting over as a single mom by choice—I might have smiled politely while mentally updating my five-year plan to get back on track. Because I’ve…
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